According to the ‘hard to get’ myth, the more someone seems distant and uninterested in us, the more obsessed we are with them. But as I said, this is a myth.
A lot of men still falsely believe that acting like they don’t care about their woman would get them the results they want. That by ignoring her, they would get her to chase them instead. Some men even believe that if they mistreat their woman, she’ll offer them even more love and attention.
Many men forget that these manipulative techniques can only work with inexperienced girls, and never with grown-up women!
A grown-up woman knows what she wants. She’s a fulfilled woman who doesn’t have time to play games. If you’re ready to be real with her, to love her and treat her the right way, she’ll do the same for you. On the other hand, if she sees that you aren’t honest, that you are playing games and you are not serious about her, she’ll walk away from you without turning back.
Because she knows that when you love somebody, you can’t just ignore them. When you love somebody, you can’t withhold your love and affection because it is so counterproductive. A real woman likes to be loved and showered with attention all the time. She wants to be sure that you’ll have her back and that she can always count on you. If you aren’t giving her what she needs, she will leave you. Simple as that.
Many men also believe that in a relationship best is not to reveal their real feelings to their partner. They tend to forget that the basis of every successful relationship is honesty. Real women value honesty more than anything. They know that they can never have real intimacy with a dishonest partner.
So, men, if you genuinely want to have a woman by your side, then when you are with her, focus only on her. Be loving, caring, and attentive. And always treat her with respect.
Only by treating a woman right, she could fall in love with you and reward you with love and affection. This could be the beginning of a beautiful relationship based on trust, respect, and honesty.
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