Don’t Just Choose A Lover, Choose A Lover Who Will Be Your Best Friend

True intimacy is much more than passion and sensuality. Being truly intimate with somebody means sharing your soul with them.

Finding a lover is easy. There are all kinds of men and women out there who need nothing more than physical intimacy or the feeling of being next to somebody.

However, if you want to find a lover who is also your best friend, then physical intimacy is not enough.

You need to seek out someone with whom you can share more than just your body. You will share your soul.

Choose a best friend as a lover.

Choose to cry your eyes out in front of them and still feel comfortable and beautiful. Choose to have someone who will pull you back to them in the morning and kiss you immediately after waking up. Choose morning breath kisses and messy hair.

Choose watching sports with them, drinking beers and laughing so hard that your stomachs hurt. Choose to watch the spark in their eyes and them grabbing your hand every time they’re happy.

Travel together. Try exotic and delicious meals and always watch the sunset together. Choose to get lost in another country with them, wandering the streets with them and holding hands.

Or, other times choose not to leave your couch. Watch Netflix with them in pajamas. Eat snacks all day; no dinner, no lunch. Watch fantastic TV shows together.

Choose to watch them fall asleep and miss them when they’re not awake.

Sit cross-legged together and talk about everything and nothing.

Sit on the same side of the booth with them because sitting across the table is just too much distance between you two.

Smile every time you receive funny texts from them. Have this smile on your face the entire day.

Meet their family and let them meet yours.

Have a family of your own.

Laugh with them, cry with them, be silly with them, celebrate successes with them, and endure whatever life puts on your path together, holding hands.

Reference: The Power of Silence, thinkinghumanity

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